A Tryst With Destiny

I see my life presently standing at a this position and Whenever I look back into my life, I realise that there are a lot of events which happened and has led me to this point. Whatever name I give it - destiny, fate or karma, it doesn't matter. I like the word 'destiny' so I name it Destiny.

           If from my present point, I look forward, it's all hazy and uncertain. I don’t know what my destiny will be. If someone could prophesy my destiny, I would not believe him because now I know that destiny can be changed until it is revealed. I am not waiting to meet my destiny, neither the vice - versa but one thing is sure - The tryst with destiny is certain.
           The future is the only thing that's uncertain and this very uncertainty keeps us anxious to know as to what will happen next. My destiny is influenced by my actions, opinions, thoughts, ideas, gestures and a lot more and these are what will truly define my destiny. I can picture and hope for my destiny to a certain but my real fate will mirror my tryst with destiny.

   At this point where I am standing right now, I know a series of choices and events have led me to this point. I do for what I want but I get for what my destiny decides. The choices that I have made have transformed into my destiny. I believe that my destiny can be changed until it’s revealed. I am out waiting to meet my destiny neither the vice versa but one thing is sure - the tryst with destiny is certain and is happening as we breathe.

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Reality TV Shows

Welcome to the world of REALITY TV “SACH KA SAMNA” as they call…..(Hindi version of moment of truth)

I got really shocked on that day when I got the chance of witnessing this show,how RAJIV KHANDELWAL keeps on asking questions ( while seating in the hot seat) about personal lives of contestants, for which they are being paid with a high price money for each stage, show really did caught my interest as I was wondering to see how contestants were so comfortable in replying  questions which were being asked related to their personal life and being awarded for the correct reply with a definite amount of money depending upon the type of questions which would be  ultimately related to their personal lives which a common man would never imagine in his dreams to share in publics. It was really shocking to see how people could sell their emotions just to earn a heck lot of money!!!!!!!!But that’s the reality of these reality shows now days.

Be it a rivalry between the judges or back bitting among the contestants, these reality shows are really becoming the parts of our lives no doubt. The success of these shows lies on the pleasure and eagerness they provide to the audiences from the real life cum dramatic situation, which they provide in front of camera and is appealing to every viewers who witnesses it.

The concept of reality shows is not new in India. 10 years before the show named KAUN BANEGA CROREPATI hosted by BIG B came and it became such a big talk of the town that it became no.1 T.V.  Reality show within months breaking all records of TV shows ever produced giving directors and producers idea to work more on the “reality concept”. The concept of becoming millionaire in just 1 hour by answering ten questions appealed to every viewer’s heart. Since then the time has changed and that there are lots of such reality shows which has lined up in coming years.

  But the main question now arises? How much reality these reality tv shows really possess now a days? I really feel that some reality shows would have got some reality hidden in them but the rest are all just a means to make money by the producers which gambles with the innocence of viewer’s who back home is unaware of gimmicks of the games being played by the producers back stage. How many of us are there who wouldn’t have witnessed a single reality show? The answer is sincerely “no” because every 3^rd daily soap now is a reality show!

There is no unhidden fact that the Indian television has witnessed a whopping number of reality shows in past few years that are  being and have been being telecasted like Roadies, Indian idol, Dance India Dance, Kids Antakshari and many to name which are aimed to promote young talents of India, have topped the list recently in the reality shows. It would be fair enough to say that reality shows do have changed the entire picture of Indian television industry now as far as earning of more and more TRP’s is concerned among the tv shows, in order to remain in competition hence in that case safeguarding  the  audience interest which can be in any form is justified as far as the boundaries of social moral values is not crossed. Talking about the degree to which these reality shows promises to provide reality on TV, producers say “as far as the question of reality is concerned we are totally unbiased from our part, way the things go in front of the camera have nothing to do with our involvement and hence there is no element of doubt of the show being preset.

My general opinion-- I think if reality shows are gaining popularity day by day is so because ultimately it’s the viewers who are making it so. We are all educated and sound and hence have the common sense of judging the reality concerned with the particular reality show. I don’t find any wrongness or unfair on any ones part as far as what is being shown in TV as it is able to meet the expectations of healthy entertainment keeping in mind our socio-ethical boundaries and to that without hurting the sentiments related to ones caste, creed or community. Viewers should be selective in what to and what not to watch.

Tv critics says “there is no harm in growing rate of reality shows as long as they don’t possess any wrong attitudes towards society or create any sense of unrest among community that would result in any sort of tension in the society and hence are justified even if there is no element of reality related to it, the main aim should solely be to just provide interest to the audience under legal conditions”.

Recently there is a show of Rakhi Sawant “RAKHI KA SWAYAMWAR” which gained astonishing TRP 10  during its first week of telecast and was seen as the reality show in which Rakhi was undergoing a traditional grand wedding ceremony by  selecting the bridegroom of her choice out of seven young lads. The interesting ‘x-factor’ involved with this show that hold on every ones curiosity was that that this type of television-cum wedding was never being witnessed by anyone before which makes everyone eager to find out what’s  there in that. It didn’t took me more than few days to found out that there is no realness associated in that show when its first few shows were telecasted on TV and I expect everyone would have also sensed the same, as it was clear that if it would have been real then auditions would have been conducted many days before its shooting.  Every one knew that it was a full fledged publicity stunt by RAKHI apart from showing dramatic “rona-dhona” and “roothna manana” type “nautanki”, the reality was far miles to be found!!!!!!!           

The melodrama or “nautanki” we say involved in reality shows are day by day becoming an all time success mantra in holding the nerves of every viewer. We can expect that there is a big empire of reality TV shows emerging in the forthcoming years which would be ruling the TELEVISION WORLD!!!

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Give Respect and You will Be Respected

The word Respect has many dimensionalities in today’s world… It perceives different meaning for different individuals and the degree to which they value also varies from person to person.  But of-course the underlining fact still holds to be the universal truth that respect in todays is a key factor for one’s happiness and degree of self-esteem.

Respect unlike power and wealth can’t be forcefully acquired or stolen. It’s perhaps the only thing that anyone can earn from their good deeds. By “any” really means “any one”…  You don’t literally need to be wealthy or a Hot-shot, it’s something one earns by imprinting their impression on others.

There are various levels of respect. A child’s respect for its elders, a businessman’s or organization’s respect for its customer, respect in the society, and ever between two individuals who may be friends, partners, or may whatever relation be it… but it’s always a binary relationship. We adore our celebrities and sports stars and may be for some Politicians, it all depends on their deeds that leave an impression on us which culminates the sense of respect.

I was rather taken back from the fact comparing the sense of this term in the history and today’s world. All these thoughts started budding within me when I was watching some interview rounds of Roadies 6.0. It’s either the term respect that might have changed or associated with fame in today’s youth, or the mental persona of the youths is getting misleading for earning respect. You must have seen contestants stating this term “I can do anything to become a Roadie..Why?? I want to earn Respect and Fame to prove myself!!” What are you proving by doing random tasks!!! Hello wake up! If you have so much to prove and bubbling with energy why you don’t see today’s society which is suffering from numerous threats like corruption, poverty, unemployment, and the list can go on and on. Youth bubbling with such energy are required are required in today’s youth politics where one people like Rahul Gandhi, Sachin Pilot have at least taken a step for a positive change for the India of tomorrow. I’m not only enforcing on Politics… social service can be on any platform. There is immense opportunity to prove one’s self in whatever profession someone is. All it takes to strive for becoming the best along with how you have influenced others, from your persona. Being successful alone isn’t sufficient at all. If you are not a kind and fair with people you are dealing with, then you can’t earn Respect no wonder even if you become the President also.

      Almost whatever publicity stunts we are seeing on the day to day life…may that Rakhee Sawant (It requires a full topic to describe her madness!!!) or and holy baba trying to grab attention are all examples of how respect in today’s world getting misleading with fame..

     But even today as I mentioned earlier the Universal fact remains the same. Respect can be earned by giving respect first or making oneself respectable…that is by doing something which benefits others. “So Give Respect and u will be Respected”. 

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Does selfless love exist???

Selfless love---Now the meaning of love has seriously changed, now it’s all about me or you. It’s never about us. People have changed and so have the love too. Everyone in my college say dude I love her. I feel like saying them go to hell. I know they will never going to marry that gal or that gal will marry him. May be you can I think am very much conservative types but I am not. The only selfless love which I have seen in my whole life is the one which your parents have with you. It’s so divine and pure. They love you unconditionally. They don’t expect anything from you. The only thing which they want is that you should be happy.

                   Our mother nature is one of the examples of selfless love. She serves our most of the needs but we humans are just creating more pollution and affecting her. Dolphins are one of the magnificent creatures, so lovely, beautiful and friendly in nature. But after what we humans have did in Denmark, I feel ashamed of ourselves that we are humans. Humans are the most intelligent creature in this planet and we are the only once who are killing them, shame on us. See this link 

http://canwechangeindia.blogspot.com/2010/03/my-soul-cried-after-seeing-dis-are-dey.html

You all will come to know what I am exactly talking about.

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The Elephant And The Dargon

  Elephant and the dragon- really a strange topic. It took several days for me to complete  this article..I was thinking what shall I write for this topic. But recently i came to know about the book "The Elephant and The Dragon" by Meredith. In this book Meredith has brought out a positive picture of India in light of democratic status of the nation. She talks of jumping points for India and at the same time has highlighted china's economic prosperity disguise.

             So I decided to  write on this topic by assuming India as an Elephant And China As A Dragon.

     India a democratic country got its freedom in 1947 and China tasted his freedom in 1949, two years after us. But when we talk about the economic growth, China is at a very high position w.r.t India, although she lies below china but India is at the most crucial position (w.r.t to HDI and Energy Consumption.  India lies at the edge of the slope on the graph plotted between these two variables).

                        India and China both are giant countries in terms of population. India is a democratic country whereas China has communist rule over there. In India people are enjoying a lot of freedom and in China people are dying to express their views but they can't. China stands at the 2nd position in the list of world's leading exporters with total value of $1428.3 billions whereas India is at 27th position with a value of $177.5 billion. Well I guess elephant is very big in size but in case of exports….India is not an elephant. Talking about the technologies China is far ahead of us. Many people might not know that China is developing a nuclear fission and fusion combo nuclear plant, this will really help in cutting down their emission and will lead them to a new era of green technology. And in India our govt is still thinking what steps we have to take. Thats the biggest problem with democracy, we can't come quickly to any decision. Take the issue of this women bill only. Whole govt system is on a big shame side. People are just fighting, someone wants it and some don’t want to get the bill passed. I never heard about riots in China but in India its very common. People are dying for creating new states in India. Although i have given the title elephant as India but it seems Indian crowd is no less than a dragon. Everyone has fire in their mouth. Taking the case of Godhra Kand in Gujarat, still i am not able to find out the reason WHY AND HOW PEOPLE CAN TURN UP LIKE THIS. Its insanity. Well at last I would like to say India being an Elephant have very low phase but has the capability of fighting with anyone. And Dragon "China" has immense power stored inside her and when someone will do something against her, she can really show what she could be.

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Maal Hai To Taal Hai Warna Sab Hadtaal Hai...

Maal means money. Well in today’s scenario you can’t dare to think for living without money. Everyone has a lust to earn more money. No one is satisfied with what he has now.

A clerk wants to become a Manager.

A manager wants to be a CEO.

A CEO wants to become the real owner of the company.

Standard of living is increasing day by day. Now the lust for sex has turned into the lust for money. Money is the Power. We cant compare it to the God but we humans are giving more importance to it than anything. Most surprising example we can see in temples. Even for completing your pooja quickly, you have to pay him some extra bucks. In all famous temples whole across the country you have some special passes, pay this much and you can go directly inside and carry out prayers. I was just thinking about those poor people who were standing in the long queue waiting for their turn to see their God. I can only laugh, because in no case we can have a utopia system.

                        See the difference between a Govt. Hospital and Private Hospital. See the difference between a govt college and a private university. Every thing is MONEY!!! Everyone is greedy for that. Can you imagine the life without that. No one can!!!!

Even My aim is to earn a lot. A lot means a lot, so that it would be more than sufficient for me and for my next generation also. Most people thinks like that...No one is satisfied...Not ME AND NOT YOU....well exceptions are always present….

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Another brick in the Wall

This phrase means a person in trouble isolates himself from the rest and tries to protect himself from emotional harm so that he can live in a constant, alienated equilibrium free from life's  physical and emotional troubles. Every incident that causes pain is yet another brick in his ever-growing wall. As his wall nears completion, each brick further closing him off from the rest of the world. Person spirals into a void of insanity cementing in place the final brick in the wall. Yet the minute it is complete, person begins to realize the adverse effects of total mental isolation. 

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DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER???

Certainly it depends on how u think about it.

If u thinking physically i don’t think size matters at all.

Let me take you to a tour of this. Sachin Tendulkar, Sunil Gavaskar are below average sized fellows but look the way they bat. They take on giant West Indies or Australians . There short height is not a problem...absolutely not for them.... take examples of fat people ...we all know about world famous SUMO wrestlers...with such huge body they can wrestle better than an average weight fellow then who gives a damn about their sizes...

But if u look technology wise it does matter ... u don't want a bulky mobile in your pockets or a giant desktop which will occupy two floors of your house. Here size is what matters, the smaller and compact these devices are the better it is for us. Have a look at the Indian car market. Numbers of small cars are far much in demand than luxury cars. You think price is a factor. Nope with world class car companies coming in market the price of small cars is at almost the same levels with homemade luxury cars. Now this field is vast and we can go on...

I am going to end this post with a hindi verse

" बड़ा हुआ तोह क्या हुआ , जैसे पेड कजुर | पंथी को छाया नहीं, फल लगे अति दूर ".

It means even if the size is big like a coconut on the tree …..its of no use for the traveller as it doesn't provide the shade and when we talk about the fruit…ah he can’t even think of that as it is too far.

And according to Google translator ...hmm...it goes like this...So what grew like trees Kjur | wing not the shadow, the fruits were very far...I am Confused :)

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"Wanderlust"

Hello everyone...now let me just wind up in a not so intricate way about what I think can wanderlust be actually. Well if I go by the dictionary meaning of the two words it’s framed from...I’ll be ending with two views i.e. wander which is aimless or leisurely walk and lust which is not just a strong sexual desire but a craving for something. Now let me confess I’m a big time optimist and I always feel that there is a hidden happiness in every blues of time. You ought to learn from mistakes, from unfavourable conditions and so I think if I look for the positive persona of this word I’ll b getting something really fruitful. Well if through what I feel I can inspire someone it’s worth my efforts. Citing a recent example of the Indian blockbuster “3 IDIOTS”, the movie's one shade was FARHAN finally did what he wanted to do, he went on for his passion towards wildlife photography.... that’s it...wander with a lust because only a burning desire can leave no stones unturned. Maybe I’m sounding a bit off track but I really thing we should move ahead of stereotype thinking and should listen to our heart, to our soul. Life is a beautiful thing happening to us why waste it with cut throat competition, hatred, pain....if each one realises his/her being here is a motto...a motto to do something....we’ll be much ahead of caste, creed, colour, country...and will be human first. So lets just wander in the ocean of thoughts. Thoughts which will turn into action, to change ourselves, a change which we want to bring in. A change which is our desire or lust and that day you'll be saying, I’m the maker of my destiny. WOW doesn’t that sound great and to make this true..you need to

Realise

Give time to yourself

Wander in a solitary place.... have a lust :)

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REGIONALISM

Regionalism commonly refers to a political ideology that seeks to further the interests and well-being of one particular region or community thereof within a larger geo-political framework. It may be from the perspective of one state or country within or a particular defined area within a smaller moiety. The ideology favors the increase of political power through propaganda for a form of autonomy and decentralisation, sometimes extending to the extremes of secessionist movements. Regionalism is also one of the major causes of dissension between a population of large cultural and ethnic diversity, as exemplified by the case of India. Extreme forms of regionalism may lead to fanaticism, thereby promoting the interests of one group let the expense of other co-existing groups. Needless to sayit is one of the greater political setbacks to true democracy and must be dealt with suitably.

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Technovating India

SHOULD India be Industrialised ?

It may seem strange to ask this at this late hour. But it is not useless, for it brings before us some of the deeper social & economic problems of our country. When we see the vast numbers of unemployed men in our country, our great dependence on foreign countries for manufactured goods, the economic resource of our country . Technovating India is the only solution to it.

In the modern age of science & technology, each & everyone is convince that by taking help of machines, our economic problems will come to an end.

These MACHINES make our work easier and give us greater leisure for higher life. Its a powerful social force. It will help to revolutionise the basis of our life. It will give an incentive to scientific research.

At the same time WE MUST NOT BE BLIND TO THE EVILS OF INDUSTRIALISM.

Firstly, it makes a man material in his outlook, it makes a man to forget his spiritual life. Secondly, it develops a mentality in which human are not considered as HUMAN but as a MACHINE.

So Technovating India is the need of the hour, considering in mind that "EXCESS OF ANYTHING IS BAD". Industrialism can fulfil its promise if & only if relations between man & machine are properly defined.

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Gandhigiri

GANDHIGIRI

Ideals vary with regard to everything-even with regard to GOD himself.So every man has his own ideal of human greatness. Some are impressed by the man who obeys the inner call and dedicates himself to the duties of love and service.

GANDHI is the one who teaches us to be dedicated to a noble ideal,entirely selfless,free from all narrowness, truthful in speech, fearless in action,meek as a lamb but a lion in spirit.It teaches us to be a DREAMER OF DREAMS & A DOER OF DEEDS.

"PASSIVE RESISTANCE" is the essence of GandhiGiri.

GANDHIGIRI brought FREEDOM , but with freedom had come communal passion and HINDUS , MUSLIMS massacred each other.

PEACE upon EARTH and goodwill to all men can remove this blackspot of communalism from the society and gradually from the world.

Gandhigiri is the need of the hour, which helps to purify our thoughts and THOUGHTS ARE THE REAL PLANE OF ACTION. An action which can bring a REVOLUTION in the world to make it a better place to live in !!!!!

You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean, if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty ----Mahatma Gandhi

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true love

Its 21th century and now the true love story ends like this

(Well Exceptions are always there :P)

(its just for FUN!!! \m/)

Initially I Was Like This

I met a beautiful gal...when I saw her first time I was Like this!!!!

She was so beautiful.....she was like an angel...i always fly high in my dreams thinking about her...

And together we were like this.....

DND

I used to give her beautiful gifts like this...

I used to talk to her like this

And during office hours i was like this...AWWW....

When my frnds saw my gfrnd they were like this

And my reaction was this

But on last valentine day, she gave rose to someone else like this

I was like this...disheartened..and very angry

After that i was like this..very sad....

I felt like committing suicide..but i stopped...i went to her for an explanation

After that i started doing this!!!!

And this also

And i ended up like this

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She!!!!

She is the one who

broke my heart !!!!!!!!

LOVE comes from the deepest part of my heart. You were my best friend, my love, my everything. Till one day , you came and said “I m sick , I m scared, I cant stay anymore with U”

That was the worst day of my life when U left me all alone in this mean world. Its more than a year now, the longest year of my life & the most painful one I ever had….

Thinking all the times about you I am living my days, in the hope that u will be back someday. Waiting for you in the same place where we used to meet, from the dawn till the dusk…But u didn’t come back till now!!!!

Tears came from the eyes. But still I tried to live in this world, where nobody cares for anyone else.

“I have found the essence of my life, I have discovered a world that’s beautiful because of you”

U will always stay in my heart My love for U will never die!!!!

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